Father's Day Departure.....

Each Father's Day, I typically post a picture of my father. He missed most of my life, having died during my first year of college. This year, I feel it important to celebrate fathers who are alive, since they will one day be missed by their families as well. So, this is someone else's Dad, who's just as important to them as mine was to me.

One of the models I've photographed referred her father to me when he wanted some casual, lifestyle portraits this year. Not only was he a pleasure to work with, he also was a fascinating person. Seeing how well his kids are doing, I'm sure much of their approach to life has been modeled and molded by their father.

I posted his picture to celebrate him for his grown children. Just as importantly, I posted it as a reminder to celebrate all living fathers. Although mine is gone, life is truly for the living. There are so many things my father missed in my life. I want to remind everyone that your living fathers will indeed be missed when no longer with you. Don't miss this opportunity to say the things you need to say. (That goes for fathers to their children, too.) My Dad and I left a lot unsaid, since his death was sudden. I'm speaking from experience.

So, Happy Father's Day to one of the most under-celebrated categories of people: Dads! Yes, you ARE vital, as vital as moms. Have a great day being acknowledged for all you've done for your families!